Many times, husbands are engaged secretly in porn, emotional and physical affairs, and hidden sexual immorality. The wife "feels" this distance and can't quite figure out what is going on because it's all hidden. She no longer feels safe. He may pick a fight which appears to be the issue. But it's a distraction from what he's really doing. She is experiencing DST-decpetive sexuality trauma. Dr. Omar Minwalla describes this type of abuse in his work. Addicts are very good at manipulating the narrative to put blame on the wife.
Many times, husbands are engaged secretly in porn, emotional and physical affairs, and hidden sexual immorality. The wife "feels" this distance and can't quite figure out what is going on because it's all hidden. She no longer feels safe. He may pick a fight which appears to be the issue. But it's a distraction from what he's really doing. She is experiencing DST-decpetive sexuality trauma. Dr. Omar Minwalla describes this type of abuse in his work. Addicts are very good at manipulating the narrative to put blame on the wife.
An eye opener and bulb on for me.learnt how not to withhold my affection towards my partner.